Do you know the emotion that most people have if they want to create a really successful life and actually build it? Anger.
Anger is the force that builds the most creativity on this planet. The problem is that authoritarian-based leaders own it, people who manipulate people, who put people down and put people in their place. A lot of the people who use anger, put people in their place, make them frightened and especially make them buy stuff that they don’t really need, for example on social media.
Being really clear about how you want to live your life is the way that we approach with anger, and how to use it in a directive-based way. You can use anger in a way that actually helps you build the life that you want. Anger is an important fueling mechanism. If you’re that really nice person, and you never get the life that you want, you get choices made for you because you’re too nice, you don’t know how to deal with anger as an emotion. You can use that anger to set boundaries with people who manipulate you, you can use it to make decisions and turn your life into a different direction. You have all the power within you.
When you feel angry, remember the following things:
- You can use anger to set clear boundaries.
- Use anger to move. That can be physical movement or moving towards other goals in life. Anger gives you lots of energy, so make use of it.
- Ask yourself ‘What do I want?’ and set clear goals.
- Think about what you need in that moment.
- Anger fuels creativity.
I would love to hear if those tips helped you and how you feel about looking at anger in a bit of a different way.